“WHEN YOU CHASE SEX, YOU DELAY SUCCESS - by Manya Jonathan Dandoka

(How lust keeps men distracted and broke) Let’s tell the truth, a lot of men won’t admit: It’s not village people holding you back — it’s you using vagina to hold yourself back.. You’re not broke because of bad luck…You’re broke because you keep trading focus for pleasure. Every time you chase sex, you’re pushing success further away. Let’s break it down like men: 1. SEX IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE FREE THING  You think it’s just “ordinary” sex?No problem. But check your life… Since you started jumping from one woman to another woman, what has grown in your life? Your goals?Or your excuses? You’re wasting time, money, and mental space trying to impress women…While your destiny is stuck on pause... 2. LUST MAKES MEN LAZY  You were meant to build.You were born to conquer.But now you’re just horny, hungry, and distracted. Instead of chasing purpose, you’re chasing panties.Instead of building skills, you’re building body counts. No great man was ever built in a woman’s DM. 3. EVERY ROUND IS A ROUND LOST  Every round of sex you’re having with women you don’t love, don’t respect, and don’t plan to marry… You’re losing time, clarity, and ambition. Your mates are investing in business — you’re investing in waist. They’re building empires — you’re building libido. This is why you’re always tired. Foggy. Empty. You’re draining your greatness in hotel rooms with nothing to show for it. 4. THE MOST DANGEROUS WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO FEELS LIKE “ESCAPE ” She’s soft. She’s sweet. She listens. She rubs your back.You feel like a king in her arms — but you wake up with nothing. That’s not a woman. That’s a distraction with makeup. She’s not building you. She’s draining you.And you’re addicted to the illusion of comfort. 5. WOMEN ARE NOT THE PROBLEM — YOUR DISCIPLINE IS  Sex is not evil. Women are not the enemy. But lack of controlThat’s your downfall. You can’t blame women when it’s your zipper that won’t stay up.You can’t blame seduction when it’s you that keeps answering “Come over.” You don’t need more women. You need more focus. 6. YOU CAN’T PLANT IN EVERY SOIL AND EXPECT A HARVEST  Your energy is like seed. And you keep planting it in toxic soil — broken girls, unserious women, emotionally damaged distractions… And you expect to reap success? No sir. You’ll reap confusion. Poverty. Setbacks Every orgasm with the wrong woman is a step away from your purpose. 7. GREAT MEN AREN’T Sex-Addicted — They’re Purpose-Addicted Want to rise in life? Start saying NO to cheap pleasure. Start saying YES to late nights building.Early mornings grinding.Weekends learning. Your mates are focused. You’re horny. That’s why they’re succeeding… and you’re just scrolling, chasing, and struggling. Final Word:  Sex will always be there. But opportunity waits for no man. You must decide: Will you chase the temporary rush of sex — or the long-term reward of success? Because you can’t serve two masters.You either BUILD … or you keep BEGGING. May the Lord help us to do the right thing at the right time in the name of Jesus Christ

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