One friend asked another friend
"What did your husband gift you to celebrate your child's birth?"
The friend replied that he did not give her anything.
The first friend was surprised and questioned her friend as to whether this was a good thing. She asked her friend "Does he not value you at all?"
After sowing the seed of such poisonous thoughts, the first friend left, leaving her friend worried and doubtful.
After some time, the husband comes back home after a stressful day at work and sees his wife's pale face.
While inquiring about it both start fighting which leads to them cursing at each other which leads to a physical fight and eventually a divorce.
What could be the root of this problem?
It was one unnecessary dialogue with a friend, who came to visit regarding her friend's health.
Let's dive into another conversation
Similarly, Frank asked James
F- “Where do you work,”
J-” In a Store”
F-” What's your monthly income?”
J-” N 20000”
F-” Just 20k? How do you live up so little?
J-” Breathes deeply and answered, “what shall I say, my friend!”
The conversation ends
A few days later Frank became fed up with his job and asked his boss to increase his salary.
The boss refused and Frank left the job and now had no job.
A man spoke to another man who lives away from his son,
He asked him “Your don comes to visit you more or less once in a year, I doubt if he has a genuine love for you.
The man later replied and said that his son was busy and was always having a tight schedule at work. He explained to him how he needs to create time for his wife and children, so he has very little time for me, I can’t blame him, he said.
Now the other man who asked the question spiced up the conversation and said in return “What do you mean? You nurtured and brought him up, you fulfilled all his wishes and now you rationalize with yourself for no reason that because of other engagements, he does not have any time to meet you! I bring it to your notice this is only an excuse to not come meet you!
After this conversation, some dreadful thoughts against his son started growing in the father's heart, and this left his father thinking he was being treated as an option by his son.
I would encourage us to remember the words that leave your mouth have a deep and massive impact on others. Without any doubt there are some people whose tongue the devil speaks, they have been subjected to be tools for the destruction of their fellow man.
In our everyday life, some questions seem very innocent to us “Why didn’t you buy anything for me?” “why don’t you have this?” “How can you spend the rest of your whole life with this person?” “How can you believe him?” “How can you still live in that small house with him?”
We consciously ask those questions innocently without thinking of their consequences. Without thinking about which seed we are about to plant in someone's heart.
Is it a seed of Love, Hate, or doubt?
In today’s times if we go to the root of all the chaos and fights to happen in most homes and around us, most often it is always because of someone else's option, question, or contribution, turning a blind eye towards maybe it would make or mar someone’s life of destiny.
Do not become a spreader of doubt and evil or a terrible maker. Enter people’s homes with blind eyes and even leaving, leave deaf.