I’ve been in Lagos for only 5 minutes and let me tell you; I have seen shege. I didn’t realise how difficult it would be to “settle in”. It’s been a little over a month and I’m still trying to get a hang of it. Here are certain tips that would make your transition into the new city easier.
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<li>Make proper research about the city before you move.<br>
<p>Like I mentioned in the previous article, I didn’t exactly “plan” to leave. I just left- and because of that, it’s been a semi-total mess. It’s important to look into the neighborhoods, cost of living, job market, and any other factors that are important to you. This will help you get a better sense of what to expect. </p>
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<li>Get a job. <br>
<p>It’s not easy but it’s necessary. As a matter of fact, this should have been done before moving. If you don’t have a job, how will you pay your bills? </p>
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<li>Find a place to live. <br>
<p>I have some family members and friends in Lagos but this is something that’s supposed to be temporary- in fact, as brief as possible before “see finish” finds it’s way to your corner. Asides that, moving in with someone means you are invading their space (whether you were invited or not) and it’s only a matter of time before you become a “burden” to them. Start looking for a place to live as soon as possible, as it can take some time to find the right fit. Consider factors like cost, location, and amenities. If you're unsure where to start, you can try reaching out to an agent. Trust me, they can be crazy, but you’re better off with their help.</p>
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<li>Set up utilities and other necessities. <br>
<p>Once you've found a place to live, it is important to set it up with important necessities. I’d advise you start with a bed, kitchen equipment, curtains, toiletries etc. Normally this would take a whole lot of money but you can make it a gradual process by taking it one step at a time. A tip I got from a friend; Make it a duty to buy At least one household item at the end of every month or every two months depending on urgency and available funds. For example, for the 12 months in a year you can buy;
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<li>Bed</li>
<li>Fan/Air conditioner </li>
<li>Fridge </li>
<li>Kitchen utensils</li>
<li>Gas cooker </li>
<li>Generator </li>
<li>Television </li>
<li>Couch </li>
<li>Mirrors </li>
<li>Microwave </li>
<li>Table </li>
<li>Washing machine</li>
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These things should be spread across your first year of relocating to make it easier for you and your pocket. Well, except you’re an odogwu which is totally fine.
<li>Familiarize yourself with the area. <br>
<p>Take some time to explore the new city and get to know the layout, how to navigate with public transportation, check out the markets, churches/mosques; In general, explore places that you’d need to go to eventually. This will help you feel more at home.</p>
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<li>Connect with the community. <br>
<p>One of the best ways to feel at home in a new city is to make connections with the people who live there. Try joining local groups or organizations, attending events, or just chatting with your neighbors. Again, it’s a slow process that shouldn’t be rushed. Maybe get acquainted with one or two neighbours and slowly penetrate into the community.</p>
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<li>Stay in touch with loved ones. <br>
<p>Moving to a new city can be isolating and lonely so make sure to stay in touch with your friends and family back home. Frequent Video calls, phone calls, and and texts will help you stay connected and share your experiences with the people you left behind (well, except you do not wish to communicate with them anymore).</p>
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Overall, moving to a new city can be a thrilling adventure, but it's important to take the time to prepare and adjust to your new surroundings. It’s not going to be an easy ride but your reason for moving is probably worth it and you just have to take the bull by its horns.
By following these tips, you can make the transition as smooth as possible and start enjoying all that your new city has to offer. Goodluck !.