THE NEW ME. - by Abisola Oladimeji

"The New Me" didn’t appear overnight. She was shaped by silent battles, quiet resilience, and the decision to stop merely surviving and start living—fully, intentionally, and on her own terms. "The New Me" is not just a reinvention-it's resurrection of parts that were once buried beneath self doubt,trauma,expectations, and fear. It speaks to the quite strength that comes from surviving seasons of silence,heartbreak,or statagnation. It's personal revolution,born not from outside validation,but from an inward awakening that says, " I am enough, as I am, but I'm also capable of becoming more." The journey of becoming a new me does not start in a day,I studied myself and realized I treated myself badly. People say stuffs that aren't true about me and what did I do? I let them have their ways.    Not because am scared of what they might do to me,but I think I can take everything life throws at me with full chest and it took me years to realize that humans are so disgusting and irritating, so I decide to change and give back the energy life throws my way in full blow. There was a time when I allowed the world to define me—when I carried the weight of others’ expectations, ignored my inner voice, and dimmed my light just to fit in,to be who and what i am not just to satisfy people. I put everyone else first more than myself, believing that self-sacrifice was strength, even when it left me drained and disconnected from who I truly was. But slowly, I realized that being everything to everyone meant I was becoming nothing to myself. "The New Me" is no longer afraid to say no. She understands that boundaries are not barriers—they are bridges to peace. She no longer seeks approval in every room she walks into, because she has found acceptance within. The need to be perfect, to be liked, to be “enough” in others’ eyes has given way to a deeper need: to be real, to be grounded, to be true to myself. I have made peace with my past—not because it was easy, but because I refuse to be imprisoned by it. The pain I once tried to hide has become a source of strength. The mistakes I made no longer define me; they refined me. And every tear I shed watered the roots of the woman I am today. "The New Me" speaks up, even when my voice shakes. She stands tall, even when it’s uncomfortable and she learn how to put people in their place. She chooses growth, even when it’s painful. She no longer breaks herself into pieces to make others whole. She’s softer, but stronger. Quieter, but bolder. Wiser, yet more curious. "The New Me" is a promise-to myself, it's a commitment to honor my journey, to live authentically,not to be miserable and to never apologize for evolving. Because growth is not a betrayal of of who I am, but a celebration of who I am becoming. And the most beautiful part? The new me is still evolving. She’s not finished—and that’s the point. She’s on a journey of becoming, not for anyone else, but for herself. Because for the first time in a long time, I’m not just existing—I’m truly living. The New Me is a lot of thing:BOLD, FEARLESS, STRONGER, WISER, COURAGEOUS,CONFIDENT, HARDWORKING,   And lastly,She has become a new person.

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