The Best Way To Ensure You Make No Progress.

.....is to compare yourself to others.You know that feeling when you see someone with a good job, trendy cars, successful business or even someone else's post on on Facebook ,Instagram, X and Twitter and you're like , "That's so cool/ beautiful/smart, amazing?"And then the wheels in your head start spinning , and you start comparing yourself to others?It's a ridiculously easy thing to do . And we all do it. It's a rabbit hole that leads to feeling like we have to do better..be better..be more like this person to be successful.Instead of  lists like Forbes "under 30" or "under 40" , show me someone who has found love for something later in their life , followed their passion and thrown themselves into it like a smiling !diot.  I wish less people glorified accomplishing things before 30 and 40.  But the truth is : No one else can be you. Remember that when you start the comparison game . And remind yourself of every single thing You do like no other. You don't need to rush to pull together a life that resembles some other person's idea of how a 30 0r 40 -year old should live. These lists , whilst seemingly celebratory, often perpetuate a culture of comparison and unrealistic expectations -making us feel more shit about not meeting arbitrary milestones.The glorification of  especially youth achievements sets unrealistic benchmarks .In reality, success knows no age limit and can manifest at any stage in life . And, often , that success might look like having a heart full of love and a regulated nervous system.Success might look like perseverance, passion, and people around us . By our side.Property ownership isn't the only sign of progress,The accumulation of things doesn't equal happiness,Marriages aren't necessarily a sign of maturity , or a shortcut to stabilityHaving a baby doesn't mean you're a mature grown-up,Just not having a baby doesn't make you an irresponsible slacker either.The whole society is geared around these expectations. It takes real strength to individuate and do it at your own pace .You've got all your success in the palm of your hands, and YOU'RE in control of how it goes .100%. You've got this.  Lets take the pressure off .Most people are still trying to figure life out . Evolution and development is a lifelong process.Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

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