Society Treats A Mans Desire For Sex Like An Emergency

And that is why we have series of rape cases, SA'd and more.Well that's not what I'm here to talk about today. Last week there was a chaos trending on twitter. It was one Mr somebody, who had sex with his wife after two weeks of delivery.His wife explained in an old tweet how painful it was. She said she tried the first time and realized it was too painful and asked him to stop, but he pressed on, and because she didn't want to disappoint him, she decided to endure through the discomfort. Legit romanticized Rape!!I'm a teenager, but fortunately for me I'm enlightened on things like this....lol.My mom is a medical personnel and she runs her own hospital. Fortunately for me as her second child, I've been to the labour room with her countless times since I was a child. Last week, we had a delivery of a woman. She came in with serious contractions. She was checked and was almost fully dilated ( ready to be delivered). Her first child was through a cesarean section. And in cases like these, the labour might be difficult or might not. Because the Virginal has never experienced bringing a child into life before. Her vulva was tight and not opened enough for the baby to be out.We let her labour for some time. But since it was taking too long we decided to try another process. If the baby stays at the canal of a woman's Vagina for too long without been birthed, the child might give up( die). Especially when the woman is fully dilated. We did EPISITOMY on her.What is EPISITOMY ?? She was cut from the down part of her private part down to an extent with a medical scissors, just so the baby could see enough space to come out. And within few minutes the baby was expelled. Aside the cut given to her by the medical personnel, the baby also gave her a tear. Mind you, wether we had cut her or not, the baby would have done it while bringing Its head out. And it would have been worst, would have taken a very longer time, leaving the woman in prolonged pain. After the baby was expelled, it was time to face the mother. She was cleaned up. My mom usually put her five fingers into the woman's vaginal. Meaning her whole five hands needs to go into the woman, to pack the blood inside of her out. It's called the "bad blood". If left inside of her, would get clothed and turn like big stones, making her stomach protrude with severe pain that could lead to death. After the cut and packing the blood from the woman. It was time for suturing. Chromic cartghut was used ( medical needle). This woman was stitched down the teard part of her Vaginal. That place didn't look like where a Penis should penetrate in anytime soon 🥺💔. That's why when I saw that thread, I was broken!.One week later she came back so the stitches could be loosed. Of course she was screaming, It's definitely painful. That wound might take one month plus to heal. Aside the physical wounds. Internally, mentally. We all know how post- patrum could be right?.. How the hell does a man sleep with his wife after two weeks of delivery? <img alt="" src="/media/inline_insight_image/Screenshot_20250808-162607.jpg"/>What mannerism of wickedness is this?" If the wife doesn't give him, he'll go out and have it then".Oooou I forgot men are polygamous in nature, my bad werey 😒. Nonsense!! Our understanding of consent is really limited and it scares me. Consent is freely given, not manipulated, it is not pressured, it is not deceived. It's freely given and can be withdrawn at any point.People think they need to convince you to give it 💔.Mr somebody on twitter raped his wife. There's no other better word!! Ps: I'm not a medical personnel. I'm just a teenager who is enlightened.Thank you for reading.

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