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Pray For Me, Ubanji
<p>In the eastern kingdom where the morning sun bowed gently before the hills of <strong>Igboland</strong>, there lived a princess titled <strong>Ugo Eze</strong></p><p><br/></p><p>They called her<em> “The Pride of the King.”</em></p><p><br/></p><p>But pride does not cancel longing.</p><p><br/></p><p>And royalty does not silence the heart.</p><p><br/></p><p>Ugo Eze had fallen in love.</p><p><br/></p><p>Not with a boy who chased masquerades in the village square.</p><p>Not with a prince still learning how to hold a sword without shaking.</p><p><br/></p><p>She fell for a man.</p><p><br/></p><p>A foreign prince named Ubanji.</p><p><br/></p><p>He did not belong to her land.</p><p>He did not belong to her age.</p><p>He did not belong to her season.</p><p><br/></p><p>But somehow, he belonged to her heart.</p><p><br/></p><p>Ubanji was everything maturity looks like when it dresses well - calm voice, patient wisdom, stories of battles fought and kingdoms negotiated. He spoke and storms reduced themselves to drizzles. He listened and her fears felt embarrassed for existing.</p><p><br/></p><p>He was not loud.</p><p>He was not desperate.</p><p>He was not trying.</p><p><br/></p><p>And that was the problem.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because when a young princess falls for a seasoned prince, it feels like safety.</p><p><br/></p><p>Until it begins to feel like distance.</p><p><br/></p><p>At first, their conversations were fireworks over the River Niger - bright, breathtaking, unforgettable. He told her about lands beyond her imagination. She told him about dreams still forming inside her chest.</p><p><br/></p><p>He called her “Little Lioness.”</p><p><br/></p><p>She called him “My Anchor.”</p><p><br/></p><p>But anchors are meant to steady ships - not sail with them forever.</p><p><br/></p><p>The council began to whisper. Her maidens began to worry. Even the elders who loved her said gently:</p><p><br/></p><p>“Princess, the man you love is a chapter ahead of your story.”</p><p><br/></p><p>Ugo Eze tried to ignore them. Love does not listen to arithmetic. Love does not calculate timelines.</p><p><br/></p><p>But seasons do.</p><p><br/></p><p>Ubanji was preparing for legacy.</p><p>She was still discovering identity.</p><p><br/></p><p>He was ready for settlement.</p><p>She was still experimenting with becoming.</p><p><br/></p><p>One evening, under a moon too honest to lie, she realized something that broke her gently:</p><p><br/></p><p>She did not need to stop loving him.</p><p><br/></p><p>She needed to outgrow him.</p><p><br/></p><p>And so she went to him - not as a princess demanding forever - but as a young woman choosing her future.</p><p><br/></p><p>“Ubanji,” she whispered, “you have loved me with maturity. But I must learn to love someone who grows at my pace. I cannot borrow your season when mine is just beginning.”</p><p><br/></p><p>He did not argue.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because maturity recognizes timing.</p><p><br/></p><p>He looked at her the way men look at sunsets -  knowing they cannot hold them, only appreciate them.</p><p><br/></p><p>“Then go,” he said softly. “And when you remember me, do not regret me. Pray for me.”</p><p><br/></p><p>She smiled through tears.</p><p><br/></p><p>“Pray for me too.”</p><p><br/></p><p>And just like that, the love that felt like destiny became a blessing released.</p><p><br/></p><p>Ugo Eze did not leave because she stopped loving him.</p><p><br/></p><p>She left because she started loving herself correctly.</p><p><br/></p><p>She chose a future where laughter did not need translation.</p><p>Where growth did not feel like catching up.</p><p>Where companionship did not feel like mentorship.</p><p><br/></p><p>Some loves are teachers.</p><p><br/></p><p>Some loves are partners.</p><p><br/></p><p>Wisdom is knowing the difference.</p><p><br/></p><p>Years later, when songs were sung about the eastern princess who chose alignment over attachment, they never called her foolish.</p><p><br/></p><p>They called her brave.</p><p><br/></p><p>Because it takes courage to walk away from what feels safe…</p><p>For what feels synchronized.</p><p><br/></p><p>And somewhere in a distant kingdom, Prince Ubanji would sometimes hear her name carried by travelers.</p><p><br/></p><p>He would smile.</p><p><br/></p><p>And he would pray for her.</p><p><br/></p><p>Not because she failed him.</p><p><br/></p><p>But because she chose her time.</p><p><br/></p><h2>TwoCents Takeaway:</h2><p>Love is not just about.... </p><p><br/></p><h2>TwoCents Reflection:</h2><p>Are you holding onto someone because ....</p><p><br/></p><h4><strong>Goodbye February....</strong></h4><p><br/></p>

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