True
My Earnings
NEW
Rankings
Feed
Sessions
Spaces
Post insight
About
Sponsor a Session
FAQs
Contact
Terms of Use and Privacy Policy
Login
Create account
Rankings
Sessions
Spaces
About
Contact
FAQs
Terms of Use
Login
Create account
173;
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
1147
15891
167
56
In
Literature, Writing and Blogging
•
2 min read
•
Jul 06, 2022 12:34p.m.
PLEASE DON'T BRUSH YOUR HAIR
Why do people believe that payment for a service gives the right to abuse said service? An Uber driver narrated his encounter with a rider whom he asked to stop brushing her hair in his car, so as not to leave strands of hair behind. According to him, her response was to ask if she didn't pay for the ride. This post was shared by popular Instagram blog; 'instablog'. The most disappointing thing about that post was the comment section. A lot of people found no fault in the attitude of the rider. Some even reiterated her point, she paid for the ride, and as such can brush her hair if she wishes to. I however saw reasons with the driver's request. It wasn't just about brushing her hair, it was more about littering the car. In a job in which he could be rated poorly for having an untidy car, surely he has the right to ask that you not brush your hair while in it. Yes, a service was paid for. But rules are no strangers in the course of a service. Something people fail to understand when it comes to services is that, you have to consider the other people making use of it. Nobody wants to get into a car which looks like the inside of a barber's shop. If you know such a thing is a turn off, then you should consider the next person who gets in after you. That's an issue which constantly keeps rearing its head in modern times - lack of empathy. Nobody seems to consider the feelings of the next guy. What we are bothered by is our own satisfaction. If that satisfaction comes at the expense of others, so be it. Emotional intelligence keeps declining, even though we like to act like we are sophisticated. Learn to respect people's rules. So far as the rules are not over reaching and offensive (genuinely offensive, not woke mind offensive), we can respect them. Keep to the rules of a service provider or you find an alternative. If the man says don't brush your hair in his car, then don't.
More insights from
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Victory Is Certain
In
Politics
As at the time of writing this, the whole country anxiously waits f...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
New Year Resolutions
In
Literature, Writing and Blogging
Happy new year!! May we all have a great 2023 filled with success, ...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Let's Talk Zodiac
In
Literature, Writing and Blogging
When it comes to the issue of zodiac signs and horoscope, there are...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Let's Talk About Fake Friends
In
People and Society
Quite often, we see post from contacts on our social media, about f...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Welcome To My Podcast
In
Literature, Writing and Blogging
You cannot scroll through an Instagram feed, without coming across ...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Keeping It To Yourself
In
People and Society
There is a common advice - if you have a dream (by dream, I mean go...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
What Happened To Romance
In
People and Society
True romance is dead. Cause of death? A lot of factors, and I canno...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Conceding Supremacy - The Own Goal Phenomenon
In
Africa
An African man would never agree to the notion that the whites are ...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
Rising Costs
In
People and Society
We are in the third month of the year, and as Nigerians, the consta...
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Lagos, Nigeria
The Real Influencer
In
Literature, Writing and Blogging
Football and sports lovers around the world are well aware of the t...
2
197
1
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
is the most viewed writer in
Literature, Writing and Blogging.
follow
Hi, it's Jefferson, thanks for reading my insights.
I'm a creative screenwriter, photographer, cinematographer and creative director. You can check out some of my works here
https://instagram.com/themi...
Insights for you.
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In Literature, Writing and Blogging
A little about the Nkwerre people
Nkwerre is one of the local governments in Imo State, Nigeria. It is a small town of about 80,000 people (according to the 2006 national population...
548 views
2 upvotes
0 comments
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In Africa
CONCEDING SUPREMACY - THE OWN GOAL PHENOMENON
An African man would never agree to the notion that the whites are superior to us. The strange thing however, is that their actions suggest otherwi...
427 views
2 upvotes
0 comments
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In Politics
THE LUXURY OF THINKING ABOUT THE FUTURE
One of the accusations levelled on those who sell their votes is that; they are selling their future or throwing it away. And the frustrations we f...
386 views
2 upvotes
1 comment
Joshua Omoijiade
Senior Designer @ Studio Contra
Lagos, Nigeria
In Literature, Writing and Blogging
Finding meaning with anything anywhere all at once
Once, in the Northern part of France, in the Parisian Cafes on the left bank, a diminutive son of a sailor named Jean Paul Satre was playing his pa...
378 views
3 upvotes
0 comments
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In People and Society
RESPECT IS NOT EARNED, IT IS LOST
That doesn't make sense you may think. But stick around, and let me explain. People say 'you have to earn my respect'. I disagree with that. To ...
362 views
1 upvote
0 comments
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In People and Society
PRISONER IN EUROPE OR FREE MAN IN NIGERIA?
The Nairaland platform is an interesting one. I like to think of it as our own (Nigeria) Twitter. It's a more accurate representation of how real N...
359 views
2 upvotes
0 comments
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In People and Society
Social media (in)tolerance?
I would like to believe that social media was created to bolster and improve communication and interaction amongst ourselves. And part of communica...
357 views
1 upvote
0 comments
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In People and Society
WHAT HAPPENED TO ROMANCE
True romance is dead. Cause of death? A lot of factors, and I cannot run through all of them at this time. We are meant to be a more advanced ge...
351 views
1 upvote
1 comment
Esther Omemu
Design Associate @ Hera Marketing
Lagos, Nigeria
In Literature, Writing and Blogging
A Murderously Funny Guide to Writing About Serial Killers...
I can already imagine you wondering, why on earth is this even important. Oh well, you’ll find out why very soon, that much I can assure you… but b...
344 views
4 upvotes
1 comment
Jefferson Nnadiekwe
Freelance scriptwriter and creat...
Lagos, Nigeria
In Literature, Writing and Blogging
Peter vs Seun : A worrying case of intolerance
Last week, we experienced the social media brawl between Seun Kuti and Peter Okoye (one half of music group; psquare). A very short recap; the figh...
344 views
2 upvotes
0 comments
×
Comments
Share thread
Refresh
×
cancel
What is TwoCents?
×
×
Share the feed
×
Copy link
Twitter
Facebook
LinkedIn
Whatsapp
Share this post
×
Copy link
Twitter
Facebook
LinkedIn
Whatsapp
×
Insights
Views
Upvotes
Comments
Contributor score
Share this post
×
Copy link
Twitter
Facebook
LinkedIn
Whatsapp
Share this post
×
Copy link
Twitter
Facebook
LinkedIn
Whatsapp
Crop photo.
If "Crop" and "Cancel" buttons are not visible, scroll down.
×
The photo you are trying to upload is too large.
Please upload a photo smaller than 4MB.
×
The file you are trying to upload is not an image.
Please upload an image of the following types - PNG, JPEG, JPG, GIF, BMP
×
For best results, be as descriptive as possible. Please refrain from using explicit, obscene or hateful words.
Hyper-realistic
Turning on "Hyper-realistic" will generate hyper-real and dramatic images. Leaving it off will produce more natural, less hyper-real looking images.
Generate Image
Use Image
Clear Image
At least 800 characters. You can save your insight as a draft and it will update as you type.
×
Login to share insight
×
Oops!
Looks like
isn't setup to receive tips.
Be sure to check back later!
Close
×
Oops!
Looks like you have not setup your account to send and receieve tips.
No worries!
Click here to add your card details
Be sure to contact us if you have any questions!
×
Let
know you love
their content by sending a tip!
Show support.
Support beyond an upvote, comment or share.
Help grow TwoCents.
Encouraging other writers ensures quality insights.
Send Online
Copy tip link
Close