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Nerd Killer
Student @ Adekunle ajasin university
Ondo, Nigeria
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Love That Feels Like Home Shouldn’t Feel Like a War Zone
<p style="text-align: justify; ">Some people think love must be chaotic to be real. That if it’s not filled with arguments, apologies, and extremes, it must be boring. But real love isn’t about chaos—it’s about calm. And it’s okay to crave peace in your relationships.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The person you’re with should be your safe space, not your battlefield. You should be able to breathe around them, not brace yourself. Love is not meant to exhaust you or keep you on edge—it’s meant to help you grow, rest, and feel supported.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">If you find yourself constantly trying to avoid triggering them, if you’re walking on eggshells more than you’re walking in joy, then it’s not love—it’s survival. And you weren’t made to survive in your own relationship.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You deserve to be with someone who listens when you speak, who pauses instead of pounces, and who handles your heart with care, not control. You deserve comfort without fear, honesty without punishment, and affection without conditions.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Some people will try to convince you that their temper is passion or that your silence is strength. But silence in pain isn’t strength—it’s suppression. And passion without respect isn’t love—it’s manipulation.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Real love is found in the quiet moments, the soft conversations, the spaces where you don’t have to defend your feelings. It’s found in the way you’re comforted after a bad day, not blamed for having one.</p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">So if love feels like a war zone, it’s okay to put your armor down and walk away. Love should be your peace, not your pressure.</p><p><br></p>
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