You see, the thing with emotions is that if not careful, they could seem abstract.

Whilst yes, they are communicated with words, they could remain mere words, and that's never a good thing.

What's the solution then? Physical display of Affection? What then happens when we're distant?, as has often been our case.

I'm not sure I have it figured out, but one thing I know is that with everytime I tell you I love you, truthfully it's not cos I have never told another, it's that in your case my heart leaps whenever I say it, perhaps it's attesting to it this time.

So, I want you to know that; I'd never let you go!. This seems like a simple statement but in a world today where commitment holds little, I assure you that with you I have found a place of rest. I am never leaving. I'm going nowhere!

Felt to me more than a mere gesture when we locked hands, felt more like our hearts locked, one into the other, such that we now exist for and by one another - bringing to the fore the ultimate definition of a life companion.

I had a dream the other day; some evil thought presented itself in pictures as though you left me, I woke up suddenly frightened by what never would, and it just made me realize more how that I know I never want to be without you.

I'm not sure I believe that God precisely makes two people for each other. What I believe is heavenly though, is that we have been able to look into our eyes and determine that against all odds, we're gonna make this work. That indeed is Spiritual. 

You'd often say to me, "Tobi, even with all my Wahala?", and I'd chuckle, cos Love makes us immune to these things. I suddenly feel like it's my responsibility to stand by you, grow with you, and to see to it that you actualize all your potential. As I know you do too. So yes, I am a 'Mumu for love' as Utibe would say. A 'finished man' as you would.

I guess the bulk of my outburst this morning is cos I want you to know that I am Committed to you, to Us, to our caring, sharing, bitter, pain and sweet. No one's ever made me feel like you make me do, and no one ever will.

God helps and keeps for us that which we share. So always remember, Ours is different 🥰💛