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Nerd Killer
Student @ Adekunle ajasin university
Ondo, Nigeria
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Forgiving Without an Apology Isn’t Weakness—It’s Self-Respect in Action
<p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>They never said sorry.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>They never admitted what they did.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>They moved on—maybe even acted like nothing happened.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><strong>And yet here you are, holding the pain, replaying the hurt, trying to understand how to let go of something that was never made right.</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Here’s the truth:</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Some people will never give you the closure you deserve.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Not because you don’t matter—but because they lack the emotional maturity to take responsibility. They choose comfort over accountability. Pride over healing. Silence over repair.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And that hurts in a very specific way.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It’s like screaming into a void and expecting an echo.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">The problem is:</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">We tie forgiveness to apology.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">We believe we can’t move on until they acknowledge the pain. But waiting for someone else to set you free is giving them too much power over your peace.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">So what do you do?</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You forgive—not because they earned it,</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">But because you deserve to stop carrying their damage.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Because bitterness rots your soul while they keep sleeping fine.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Forgiveness in this case isn’t reconciliation. It’s not inviting them back in.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">It’s saying: “I release this—not for them, but for me.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">I don’t need their remorse to choose peace.”</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Here’s the power in your hands tonight:</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Forgiveness is for warriors.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">For people who decide to cut the emotional cord, not to forget, but to move forward untangled.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You don’t need their apology to be whole.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">You don’t need their guilt to reclaim your joy.</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">Your healing isn’t on their timeline—it’s on yours.</p><p style="text-align: justify; "><br></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">And the moment you decide you’re done waiting…</p><p style="text-align: justify; ">That’s the moment you win.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>
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