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Elizabeth Toluwanimi Olawale A Fashion designer @ Sonia Jerry
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In Relationships • 2 min read • Feb 06, 2025 18:26p.m.
Cut them off! Is it that easy?
<p><em>"Cut them off!"</em></p><p><em>"If friends aren't lifting you up, it’s time to let them go."</em></p><p><em><br></em></p><p>I’ve always been a staunch supporter of that mantra.</p><p>Come January, many of us reassess our circles and consider who stays and who goes.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>But, here’s the truth: merely cutting ties doesn't guarantee progress.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<strong> &nbsp; .................</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Is it that easy to let people go, especially if they haven’t done anything wrong?<span style="background-color: transparent;">&nbsp;</span></p><p>I’d say it’s a yes and a no.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Yes, because your path forward takes precedence over clinging to relationships that drain you.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>And no, because those friends may have&nbsp; contributed to your life in some way, even if it’s hard to see.</p><p><br></p><p>So, is it wise to suddenly cut them off?&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Honestly, I’ve faced this before and I will share with you some insight to balance it.</p><p><br></p><p>It’s all about <strong>limited association.&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">&nbsp;</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><br></span></p><p>And, it is as simple as, don’t spend three <strong>hours</strong> with someone you should only see for three <strong>minutes</strong>!&nbsp;&nbsp;<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p><p>You know that those daily chats about inconsequential matters doesn’t help your growth.</p><p>Start by trimming those conversations and visits down to twice a week.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>Next, aim to adjust to just once every two weeks.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Now, that you’ve streamlined your relationships, nothing major has changed, not until you seek out for those who share your values, invest time with them-<strong> expand your association;</strong>&nbsp;they’ll guide you on your journey.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Does this approach sound like it might work for you? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comment section!&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>
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