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In Literature, Writing and Blogging • 2 min read • Aug 28, 2024 20:55p.m.
CIVILITY
<p style="text-align: justify; ">Insulting others to prove a point is an unhealthy and destructive way of communicating. This approach not only demeans the person being insulted but also diminishes the credibility of the person doing the insulting. Sometime last month, I had to discontinue a conversation with someone I had just met. We hadn't even introduced ourselves, and the discussion didn't involve him in the first place. He inserted himself into the conversation and started calling me names, not only trying to prove a point but insisting that his point was the only fact and truth. <em>*As how? From where to where?* </em>It was irritating because, first, I wasn’t wrong, and second, when I called his attention to the initial insult, he didn’t stop. When we use insults, we deviate from addressing the issue at hand. This often leads to resentment, defensiveness, and a breakdown in communication, making it impossible to have a constructive conversation. Moreover, insults can cause emotional harm and perpetuate a cycle of negativity, making it difficult to resolve conflicts or reach mutual understanding. By resorting to insults, we alienate others and foster an environment of hostility and animosity. </p><p style="text-align: justify;">Effective communication requires respect, empathy, and a focus on the issue rather than the person. To prove a point without infusing insults, one must prioritize listening and understanding the other person’s perspective. It’s essential to use language that is clear, concise, and devoid of any personal attacks. By maintaining a calm and respectful tone, we create a safe space for open dialogue and encourage others to do the same. Instead of resorting to insults, we should practice articulating our thoughts and feelings in a manner that seeks to enlighten rather than belittle. This not only fosters healthier relationships but also promotes a more positive and constructive discourse. </p><p><br></p>
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