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THE CURIOUS CASE OF MR. REGHA
<p>'Poverty ambassador'... 'the man who has a covenant with poverty'... 'I've never seen someone who is so proud of being broke'... 'this guy never minds his business'...</p><p><br></p><p>Say what you want about him, but in an era where multiple colorful characters rise to social media fame, Daniel Regha may yet take the title as the most enigmatic. He even dresses like he is prepared to receive the award.</p><p><br></p><p>About a couple of years ago, a young man slowly gathered attention on social media for his unsolicited criticisms and advices on basically every matter - his name is Daniel Regha. What initially annoyed people, began amusing some (the rest have and still call for his head). Personally, I thought it was one of those 15 seconds fame thing. But nope! Daniel's 15 seconds seem to be going on forever, seeing as he has found ways to make blog pages every now and then.</p><p><br></p><p>One of the zings Nigerians used to try to shut him up, is broke shaming. Seriously, why do we always do that? However, Daniel refused to be gagged because of his financial status (which nobody was certain about anyway). He kept up with his antics much to the chagrin of his detractors.</p><p><br></p><p>Enter Elon Musk's money. Twitter (can't get used to calling it X even till now) rolled out the monetization feature for accounts - meaning your tweets could fetch you money depending on the engagement levels. This must have been Daniel's prayers answered because he stands out as one of the 'influencers' to have hugely benefited from this.</p><p><br></p><p>In a move I slap the term 'genius' on, Daniel embraced his 'poverty'. Netizens loved broke shaming him, so he might as well get paid for it. Occasionally, he uploads a photo of his 'unappealing' meals and sits back while a group of people I term unwise bombard his comments with mockery and a sad display of deluded elitism (a few things get Nigerians excited more than the feeling that they are living a better life than the next man). The following week, he uploads another and gets the same result.</p><p>Honestly, this makes me question human intelligence and how easily we fall for baits like fish.</p><p><br></p><p>People call him all sorts, but I call him clever. I don't know if he intentionally does it or he is just oblivious - if he is oblivious, it makes it even more pathetic for those who indulge him. Nigerians are elitists and pride themselves in classism - which is strange for a third world nation. We always lose our marbles for things that give us that perception of class, and condemn anything else that reminds us of the reality of the nation.</p><p><br></p><p>Honestly, whatever anyone eats or wears should not be the concern of strangers. Yet, to those online, it is an invitation to access said person's financial status. Which is why I applaud Mr. Regha. In his own quirky way, he has found a means to exploit the deluded classism of Nigerians to his profit.</p><p><br></p><p>You do not have to like him, but you cannot deny his unorthodox brilliance.</p>
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<p>As a secondary school student sitting in Social Studies class (or was it Government? 🤔) I never knew how much relevance that word held. Yes, I knew on some level the cartoons I grew up on as a kid influenced my thoughts and educated me a lot. But now, many years later, I see how much it has advanced and derailed us.</p><p><br></p><p>Anything done in excess, no matter what it is can have a negative impact. This is why Nigerians' ability to assimilate and adopt other people's cultures has had such a negative effect on us. This quality is one to be praised and makes someone a beacon, but when done in excess you not only lose the core of who you are, but you stand the risk of taking traits and habits that can be detrimental to you. This is where Nigeria finds itself. </p><p><br></p><p>Over time we have adopted The Good, The Bad and The This Shouldn't Even Be A Topic. We took in all these with the shaming tactic that our ways were primitive and in some cases barbarian. While I will not argue that some customs or traditions needed to be left in the past, the problem now is that there is this underlying inferiority complex and belief that most of the things from the West are better than ours. </p><p><br></p><p>We forget that they are human and are prone to being wrong as well, or some cultures were made to solve specific problems. Let me set an example. The idea of disciplining children. This topic is so horrific for many, but humans (and yes even kids) by nature want to test boundaries to learn what they can get away with. Why? Because human nature prioritises pleasure and immediate gratification, call it our animal Instinct. If a kid could have candy for breakfast, lunch and dinner, they would find a way to get it, but the parent has to be the firm hand to tell them no and then instil discipline in them so they don't end up with diabetes. This is what disciplining children does, it shows them what is and what isn't acceptable. This frees them to know how to interact with the larger world and not be confused when an action their parents never told them was wrong, gets them punished or ostracized by others in society.</p><p><br></p><p>We forget that also, life has stages and as much as we are enamoured by how awesome the Western standard of life is, they have the freedom to live the way they do because either the government or the people fought to preserve it no matter how imperfect it may be. In translation, you cannot live in a developing nation and want to mimic the same culture of a developed nation that has the luxury to do so, you will just plainly appear delusional and out of touch with reality.</p><p><br></p><p>Before we copy from them we owe it to ourselves, and our family to analyse and think through what we want to adopt. Cultures are different because realities are different. Take the best of other cultures and use it to build yourself, but know where to draw the line, do not underestimate and belittle the beauty of your culture and traditions. </p><p><br></p><p><br></p>
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SHHHHH!!!!!
<p>Stupid people are not allowed to air their opinions in public - at least that was a belief once upon a time. Not only were they not allowed to speak, they were not extended an invite to an important gathering or among the knowledgeable.</p><p><br></p><p>It might come across as arrogant and nasty to label certain group of people stupid, but the word exists for a reason and I won't give into woke culture that ignores some words. However to pacify the angry heads among us - by stupid, I mean people who lack knowledge or wisdom in specific topics, yet choose to advertise their ignorance rather than fix it. People like this exist everywhere. Their misguided and brazen show of stupidity can be seen in schools, work places, social gatherings, casual hangouts, and most recently, the internet. These people should not be given a chance to air their opinions.</p><p><br></p><p>Wise men knew this. Even though I admit that they could be extreme, they were on to something. Why should stupid people not be allowed to freely give their opinions? Simple, because a stupid opinion is a dangerous thing. No matter how idiotic an opinion sounds, it has the ability to influence some people - majority of this being children. Hence to protect such gullibility from being preyed upon, we need to curb the rate at which absurd opinions are shared.</p><p><br></p><p>Giving a stupid person the floor in a gathering, is also dangerous to said person. There is something hugely embarrassing about advertised ignorance. It might be elusive to the person, but not to others. There are also mischievous individuals ever ready to take advantage of exhibited ignorance. You see? It's not a condescending thing to say stupid people should not speak in public!</p><p><br></p><p>But alas, our world has changed. The internet exists and it's free to all - free to stupid people. And with such freedom comes the overwhelming display of stupidity in the name of opinions. All it takes for anyone to drop a hot take, is an active internet subscription, an Instagram account, or an X account. And boy do stupid people have a ton of 'hot' takes. These garbage opinions have succeeded in driving a lot of people down nonsensical paths, but somehow we enjoy promoting them. It's a sure fire way to trend on social media - say something stupid!</p><p><br></p><p>I have to state that the number of stupid people in the world grossly outweighs the number of reasonable people. Don't believe me? look through the internet with an objective mind. Having known this, can you imagine how ominous it is to let the opinions of the foolish drive the world? That might be the actual doomsday. A couple of weeks ago a certain young lady who I refuse to give the honor of mentioning her name, made the rounds on the internet for her views shared on a podcast. Quite frankly, the opinions she spewed were appalling - it's not the scary part. The scary part is that she did succeed in garnering a few supporters, and further reinforcing the warped ideology that women should be paid by their admirers for their beauty.</p><p><br></p><p>That is what you get when you give an ignorant and intellectually handicapped person the platform to speak. The stupidity spreads like a virus. We can curtail this particular menace that threatens the sanity and order of society by limiting the liberty at which we give everyone to speak on sensitive subject matters.</p><p><br></p><p>It might be extreme, but desperate times call for desperate measures.</p>
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Eren Yeagar and Freedom's cage
<p>Warning: this article contains spoilers for Attack on Titan</p><p><br></p><p>What becomes of the humanity within when a human becomes a god? In the world-famous Shonen Anime, Attack on Titan (AOT), I believe we get one version of an answer to this question. Eren Yeagar, the show's main Protagonist turned antagonist walks the life of the human chasing ultimate freedom. Even after gaining the god-like powers of the founding titan, Eren is an epic example of the difficult contradiction of becoming a god and retaining one's humanity.</p><p><br></p><p>Firstly, to briefly introduce the existential themes of AOT; Jean-Paul Sartre describes human existence as an existence “for-itself". By this, he refers (in simple terms) to a conscious existence. Being conscious, human beings think, feel, and resist a fixed mode of existence. Sartre defines our situation as radically free and as an anxious one. On one hand, a rock, stone, or Cup exists "in-itself" and has no awareness - it has no desire to be anything else - less or more; a human being, on the other hand, exists with no fixed definition or purpose and must choose one for himself or herself. Today I could be a lawyer, for example, and then I could turn destroyer of rain forests the next. We exist first, and then we find purpose or definition “existence precedes essence”.</p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000006901.webp" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>This is the source of the anxiety Sartre speaks of. We will always have the angst of deciding on who we are, and what matters most. We decide at every turn even without intentionally choosing because we are radically free. To resist or deny this is what Sartre terms bad faith - that is - living as though one can only have one particular route through life - we can always choose. Sartre further suggests that in trying to escape this feeling of angst, man tries to become a fixed being, having no more desire that he/she cannot fulfil. We want to avoid the anxiety of having to choose while, however, retaining the freedom of being able to. We want to be unmoving facts of existence who, nevertheless, can choose to be anything. This is what Jean-Paul Sartre defines as man's desire to be God. God is that historically fully defined being who still retains full freedom; this, as we will come to see, is a contradiction. A human cannot be fully defined or satisfied in themselves because at the core of human existence is an insatiable nature. If a person suddenly became fully defined, wouldn't they cease to be human?</p><p><br></p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000006903.jpg" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>Let us return now to Hajime Isayama’s dramatic story, Attack on Titan. We first meet Eren Yeagar as an unremarkable boy enclosed like the rest of humanity within the towering walls of Paradis Island. The humans are so trapped because of the Titans; a genre of gigantic humanoid monsters who lurk beyond the walls and have seemingly killed most of the human population. Eren is symbolically awakened (or born) to a new level of consciousness after two major events: First, Armin, his dear friend, reveals to him a free world beyond the walls in a book waiting to be explored and experienced; secondly, in a tragic event the titans breach the otherwise impregnable walls of the city and in the attack, Eren's mother is violently killed, sacrificing her life to save him and his loyal friend Mikassa Ackerman. Following this tragedy, Eren joins the survey corps, an elite military unit that ventures beyond the walls to explore and, in part, defend Paradis Island from the Titans. Here he finds purpose: he will see the world beyond the walls like in Armin's book and he will exterminate every last titan. This is what he defines as his sole purpose - this is freedom to him. </p><p>As the show progresses, we see how Eren becomes increasingly possessed with the freedom he has imagined in his head - his search for it is insatiable. First, the walls are in the way, then the titans; the humans beyond the wall fall in his cross hairs and even after beholding the peaceful waters and fields beyond; it is not enough; then there are enemies everywhere.</p><p style="text-align: center; "><em><strong>“We’re born free. All of us. Free. Some don’t believe it, some try to take it away. To hell with them!”</strong></em></p><p><br></p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000006902.jpg" alt=""></p><p><br></p><p>To understand how Eren achieved the god-like nature, earlier mentioned, it is important to briefly recount the history and lore of the Titans' powers. In AOT, all Titan powers come from Ymir Fritz, this historical figure made a pact with a mysterious parasitic Creature once upon a time, and this granted her the powers of the founding titan. with this power, she was able to control mindless titans (formed by transforming her descendants directly or injecting them with her spinal fluid); manipulate her descendants' minds and memories and connect them through a mysterious realm called the paths (coordinate) which transcends space and time.</p><p>Following her death, her powers which had served the king in world domination; were split amongst the king's daughters and then among the Royal family members. 9 major titans formed in this process with special powers and autonomy. The Attack Titan was one of such Special titans; it possesses the power to send memories from the present to past holders of the Attack Titan.</p><p>I have left some gaps to be brief but it is more crucial to note that Eren Yeagar discovers two important things after nearly meeting his end in a titan's mouth: first, for some reason he doesn't know till later on, he is in possession of what he later learns is the attack titan's powers; and after being abducted by people he thought of as comrades, he discovers there are Humans beyond the wall who would even seek to harm his home. Eren discovers that the concept of freedom he saw in Armin's book, beyond the walls of Paradis island is under threat by not only mindless pure titans but others with special abilities like him. They are in the way of his freedom and he screams his desire to kill them all. he says quote: </p><p style="text-align: center; "><strong><em>“ If someone is willing to take my freedom... I won’t hesitate to take theirs.” </em></strong></p><p><br></p><p style="text-align: left;">He is set on a path then to find his fullest freedom having internalised that it could only be the Titans in his way Eren seeks to be fully realised and free even if it means other humans are in the way. It is here that he fixes himself onto one path to cope with the anxiety of his existence. </p><p style="text-align: center; "><em><strong>"you bastards, I'll kill you all!”</strong></em></p><p><br></p><p>He learns he is also in possession of the founding titan- his father had eaten up the holder in an Eldian liberation mission before allowing himself to be devoured by Eren - passing on both powers. Using the founding's power to gain liberty becomes Eren's new purpose; a power only accessible if he can come into contact with the Royal blood of the Fritz or Reiss lineage. Upon acquiring this power he effectively becomes a god and decides to wipe out all of humanity in pursuit of ultimate freedom. It is crucial to note that he continues with this plan even after living amongst his enemies and empathising with them. They're just like him, he realises. Still, he resolves to wipe them all out, all the same.</p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000006906.jpg"><br></p><p>Once in control of the founding titan Eren becomes like the “in itself" he is (symbolically) complete, and he is fully realised but here is the Contradiction; being able to perceive all time (past future and now) at once, he is convinced of being powerless to change his destiny. He orchestrates mass murder, sees his death coming, and even still he presses on as if he has no choice. Eren changes from the protagonist who declares that we are all free, who says "I am free. Whatever I do. Whatever I choose. I do it out of my own free will.” to the antagonist telling his friends to try to stop him “you are all free".</p><p>Under the Sartrean lens, I find some explanation for the walking rumbling mass of contradiction. Eren denies his agency by fixating on his corrupted version of Armin’s dream. He thinks if he kills the Titans, he'll be free; then he encounters other people who send Titans their way and decides they must die also. Beyond them are other humans with weapons of their own; they must die as well.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>“So if we kill the enemy, the one waiting for us on the other side, will we... finally be free?” </em></strong></p><p style="text-align: left;"><br></p><p style="text-align: left;">By becoming a god, he becomes a fixed aspect of reality - he becomes “Eren who brings about the rumbling” and nothing else; just as a sun god would be shackled to the sun or the god of time tied to the passing of this aspect. He loses the radical freedom Sartre describes, first, because of bad faith and then because the gods are not truly free - Not like us. The irony found in Attack on Titan’s story is that our hero/villain is free when in his cage of Paradis - he can be many things from that point. He is however most trapped when he becomes the most powerful being in existence even beyond those walls. To conclude, here is a quote from Mariko of HBO’s TV series, Shogun: </p><p style="text-align: center; "><strong><em>If Freedom is What You Live For, You’ll Never be Free from Yourself</em></strong></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>
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<p>I was that pure, untainted little person, little, in every way; size, body, mind, but my heart? Larger than life.</p><p>I loved fully and hated the same way,<br></p><p>I never lied without a sorry, inexplicable reason.<br></p><p>I always tried to look my own definition of pretty.</p><p>Sometimes, that meant half my bottle of lip gloss on already pretty lips, and just enough powder to make my lips the topic of my face.</p><p><br></p><p>My smile always lit up the entire football field.</p><p>Yes, I played occasionally but that's not the point.</p><p>I wore my heart on my sleeves. You could always tell if I loved someone or not.</p><p>My face, very expressive. On it, you could read everything, any emotion.</p><p>I didn't have to utter a word - just how i liked it.</p><p><br></p><p>Reading was always a hobby,</p><p>Always trying to make sense of any and all words in my sight.</p><p>I got so good that I started diverging to other languages, </p><p>So much so that daddy always brought his igbo bible for read-aloud lessons.</p><p><br></p><p>My little self always held authority, be it in the little role plays we indulged in the neighbourhood or among my peers anywhere.</p><p>Usually, my joy knows no bounds when it's movie time. </p><p>My memory and those of my siblings were always so apt, almost photographic,</p><p>All the lines and lyrics, once heard, always stuck.</p><p>Despite how intelligent I was, I never did as well as I'd have liked at school. </p><p>This just meant I was never in the top 3-10th positions.</p><p>I often read with all my might and answered questions with much deligence and patience but when it's results day, my card would come in and I'll see "18th out of 37".</p><p>Sad reality, I was a knower, not an "examser".</p><p><br></p><p>I was a late bloomer.</p><p>While the girls my age were growing mounds on their chests, all I had on me were two sore dots and a bra, two sizes bigger.</p><p>It never bothered me, but then again, I never questioned my body, until I couldn't find pretty shoes in my size.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>My teachers and principal always wrote how I was parrotty,</p><p>I never saw what they saw.</p><p>I knew I was playful, in fact, extremely so.</p><p>Could it be that they judged me based on my out-of-class personality? What wickedness!!!</p><p><br></p><p>There was always so much to do, but as always, I never got them all done.</p><p>I always had time for books though, always had my nose stuck in one. </p><p>Am I the only one who thinks hard copies are one of the most beautiful things? <br></p><p>The smell of them, the feel of them , it was everything, just like my memories are everything to me.<br></p>
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Oh yeah! I love the smell of hard copies too. It just makes me want to read the hell out of them books. 😊
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<p>If you grew up in Nigeria and you're in your mid- or late 20's, I believe you can recall those fond moments when your dad returns from work and you're all screaming, Daddy Oyoyo, Daddy Oyoyo, Daddy Oyoyo! In some of the cases, our dad's will form hard guy and tell us to behave and stop jumping, but in their hearts, joy wan finish them. Sincerely, no one should grow up without a dad, but life has different plans for everyone. It just dawned on me that I barely write about my dad, yet the values and lessons I have learned from him still shape the course of my life.<br></p><p> <img src="/media/inline_insight_image/pexels-cottonbro-6595039.jpg" alt=""></p><p>I think it's time we moved our fathers from the Unsung Heroes group chat and placed them in the Hall of Fame group chat. I believe that, as a man, your father is perhaps the only person who genuinely wants you to do better than him. Your dad legit wants you to outlive and outperform him. So yeah, let's give them their flowers while they are among us. Yes, I know some fathers don loose guard and have hurt their families on quantum levels. I'm not here to judge them; we've never worn their shoes. Like Black Sheriff said, "who never fvck up hands in the air, no hands."</p><p>I can bet that you've barely or probably not heard your dad say that he's not fine or that he's feeling weak. Yo, do am if e easy! Yes, I get the rationale behind the clamour that men should speak up, but no one really is ready to be a man! The tutorials are not on Coursera, Udemy, or Selar. I hope that makes sense to you. It's like the burden of the world rests on your shoulders. And you somehow have to live for others daily. </p><p>To every man and father out there, I need you to know that YOU ARE ENOUGH. </p><p>To the boys, you will become a man while still a child. Stay Strong.</p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/pexels-a-darmel-7322383.jpg"><br></p><p>When shadows crawl at night</p><p>Our fathers save us with light</p><p>When we tremble and doubt</p><p>They remind us that we too can sprout</p><p> </p><p>Though unfit at first glance</p><p>He believes he'll learn this tedious dance</p><p>So step by step, he climbs</p><p>Day by day he tries</p><p>Hard to find</p><p>A way to be our mirror</p><p>The door to a world of peace</p><p>One he never had</p><p>So if you've never heard</p><p>Know this</p><p>Fathers are human</p><p>They'll till </p><p>You'll bill</p><p>Yet you're still</p><p>In their will</p><p> </p><p>Not all fathers leave</p><p>And some did so you could live</p><p> </p><p>Fathers are human</p><p>Some are haunted</p><p>They feel unwanted</p><p>Yet in their embrace</p><p>We find our place</p><p>Their lives are torn</p><p><br></p><p>Yet when you smile, they say, I WON.</p><p><br></p>
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QUICK HACK TO LEARNING A NEW SKILL
<p>As someone with a lot of varying interests and a hunger to keep learning and expanding, this is a topic I felt a younger me would've loved to see. So here I am, writing this to whoever may need this knowledge. </p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000099558.jpg" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>Learning something new comes with a mix of different emotions, from anxiety to excitement (depending on your comprehension/difficulty level). Learning, especially a skill comes in 2 parts; practical and theory. </p><p>The theory is understanding the foundation and mechanics of that skill, the language and the ideas that help make you able to deconstruct and reconstruct any product in that field.</p><p>The practical (the really fun part) is like it implies in the name; where you repeatedly practice and experiment to get your brain and body to understand what you've heard about or read. This is where you embody the knowledge and bring your ideas to the real world. </p><p>The practical is supposed to be the easier part because you get to see what you have heard. Seeing it gives you an appreciation of the information, but it can be complicated as well. </p><p><br></p><p>From experience, I've come to find; especially in the digital space, half of the confusion in learning something new can be solved by understanding the tool you will work with. The tools, medium, and platform are usually strange to a beginner, and this inability to know how to make it do what you want is half the struggle of learning.</p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000099563.jpg" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>Tools are an extension of your body, like an arm. The more familiar with get with the tool, the more its use becomes so seamless that there is almost no separating it from you because of the speed between your thought and the response of the tool in delivering. </p><p>So, when you are facing difficulty learning something new, just take it upon yourself to understand how the tools of that trade work, be it digital or physical. Study it till you get the hang of it, and you will notice that that understanding will translate to the easy operation of the said machine. This will help you in your endeavour to bring your imagination and thoughts to life</p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000099564.jpg" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>P.S. I know you may be looking for a quick hack to learn, but nothing beats time and practice. It is only through experience and familiarity that you can then learn hacks and a quicker workflow or shortcut that helps you be effective. So learn to love what you do, for that is the only way you can attain mastery</p>
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<p>If you are a filmmaker, I bet you would have heard the phrase 'give the audience what they want' on multiple occasions. It can be frustrating, especially in the Nollywood scene where producers/directors lord their superiority over writers and are dead set on their beliefs over what the audience wants.</p><p><br></p><p>And while it's true that movie goers have certain tropes which they seem to have become accustomed to, I do not agree that creatives have to follow those tropes at all times - personally, I feel it's lazy and limiting filmmaking. One of the many beauties of filmmaking is experiencing diverse point of views of a particular ideology or completely different ideologies altogether. Therefore, I think it's sinful to deprive thousands, maybe even millions of people these experiences by churning out slightly altered versions of the same movie.</p><p><br></p><p>I recall once at a seminar, a popular producer boldly told us : ' if you are not producing comedies or glam movies, then forget about it'. This singular experience was one of the most depressing of my journey in filmmaking. While I appreciate well done comedies, I am not drawn to writing them (at least not yet) and I am definitely not big on the idea of using glam to cover up shoddy plot, acting or production. So did this mean that I had no future in the film industry?</p><p><br></p><p>Thankfully it didn't as there are people who appreciate my work for what it is. Plus my foray into ghostwriting has afforded me the opportunity to flex my creative muscle in various genres and creative media.</p><p><br></p><p>I can hear someone murmur 'Hollywood does this too'. Yes, they do, but they also have a long list of evidence that they also take risk by birthing new ideas (Star wars, Avatar, Black Mirror, and these are just a few). But somehow we only draw inferences with the shortcomings of Hollywood and never their hunger to break new grounds. Hollywood isn't as obsessed as Nollywood is with 'giving the audience what they want'. </p><p><br></p><p>The big question now is what does the audience want? Is it a watered down theme or on the nose and preachy dialogue so they get the message? Or the needless infusion of cringe comedy so they can laugh and have a good time? Perhaps it might be the cheesy and poorly executed love dynamic between a man and woman (looking at you YouTube movies). On careful consideration, we find that giving the audience what they want is vague. Like I said earlier it's just an excuse to churn out mediocre works intended as cash grabs. Again, YouTube Nollywood, I see you.</p><p><br></p><p>This write up would piss off a lot of Nigerian filmmakers if they see it, and I hope they do. But I'm not sorry. We've swam in the ocean of mediocrity for so long, the permanent stench of the water lingers on us. I was not drawn to filmmaking from childhood to get lost in the sea of mediocrity, I know what wonders films can do. I know the undiscovered emotions a good movie can evoke within a person, and I know first hand how well crafted and carefully thought stories can inspire.</p><p><br></p><p>Moreover, the audience is due for something new. A couple of months ago, a teaser to the upcoming movie 'Finding Messiah' sent social media agog. It wasn't the regular stuff that the audience was used to, but the hype that has been built around it is mind-blowing. You cannot assume that a child would only eat beans and nothing else, when all you serve him is beans.</p><p><br></p><p>It's common knowledge that a lot of people don't watch Nollywood movies in the cinemas. It is not because they are unpatriotic to their own stuff, it's because their excitement hasn't been aroused - a lot of them do not see the need to see something that has been done a thousand times. Create something good and exciting, create something fresh and watch how these same people wholeheartedly pay to see it.</p><p><br></p><p>I absolutely believe there's a lot Nollywood can achieve if we stop boxing ourselves into an obviously crammed space in the name of giving the audience what they want. The most beautiful thing about art is that it should not be tamed. </p>
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<p>In terms of the numbers, Lagos city has a housing problem. Reports by the World Bank show up to 70% of the population lives in informal settlements or slums, and their residences have no access to the most basic facilities. There aren't enough houses, and the houses are of poor quality. Nigeria is a poor nation by multiple accounts, and all its cities are naturally susceptible to these formations. Furthermore, poverty is not the only specific problem plaguing residential architecture in the city of Lagos; the state is home to a saturated construction industry with big players building what some of the digests and critics define as “ultra-modern” homes. The shanties and Lekki homes share the problem of being utterly inspiring. 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In a given place, the architecture of the home is a crucial point of contact with them.</p><p><em><br></em></p><p><em><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000007224.jpg" alt=""><br></em></p><p><sub><em>Photo credit: by Dami Akinbode on Unsplash</em></sub></p><p><br></p><p>First, a brief discussion of political science; Francis Fukuyama states in "the origins of political order" that a modern state forms when a consolidation of central authority gives rise to a meritocratic bureaucracy that can administer public services in a territory. A strong centralised government can create and, or maintain regulations including those concerning architecture and public infrastructure. Strong states look for ways to make their territories legible and easy to access; it makes sense because a legible territory can be easily monitored and taxed. This manifests in services such as bridge and road construction as well as creating building codes that ensure even personal residences, privately built, are within a corridor of predictability.</p><p>Nigeria (and Lagos by extension) has a government rife with patrimonial appointments—a patrimonial government here being one where the ruler(s) treat the state as personal property. The Civil service is staffed with appointees who have risen through the ranks or remained in office as a result of patronage or clientelism. Beyond the poor quality of staffing, the state proves incapable of providing the most basic infrastructure due to one version of incompetence or the other; I live in an estate that has had a poor road connecting to the major road for all of two decades—reasons for this include someone sitting on a contract (taking up the money), or someone else simply forgetting to attend to it. Nigeria’s politically corrupt present and past are well documented in metrics such as the corruption perception index (CPI) compiled by Transparency International, ranking Nigeria 136 out of 175 countries for least corrupt. General political corruption, however, is not the subject of this essay. The consequent poverty, irregular administration of property and land use laws as well as a formation of strong National ideals are.</p><p>As a polity moves from the traditional tribal and patrimonial mode of government, the citizens are forced to gradually drop tribal identities in favour of a more generalised national identity. A person would define themselves first as a Nigerian, for example, before saying they were from a certain village or town. An American might chant "USA" before his designated hometown’s name. This patriotism is born of a formation of shared values and ideals that come about in the context of a strong state that can unify its people. Nigeria remains perpetually on the brink; not quite tribal (although tribalistic on many occasions) but not quite nationally defined in ideals and principles either.</p><p>In ancient dynastic China, first under the influence of the Qin (pronounced Chin), the country's make up was slowly unified under the rule of emperors, as China formed the world's first modern state bureaucracy built on the back of meritocratic appointments. In part two of this essay I draw straighter lines between these strong centralised bureaucracies and the impact on national identity and on architecture in the region; I also contrast this more specifically with the context of Lagos, Nigeria.</p><p><em><br></em></p><p style="text-align: center; "><em><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000007277.jpg" alt=""><br></em></p><p><sub><em>Forbidden city China: by Weichao Deng on unsplash </em></sub></p><p><br></p><p>I make the case that the only unifying core value of the average Nigerian is the desire to be able to escape the administration that perpetuates substandard living conditions. This core principle manifests in a pursuit of money that is all-consuming. The logic is sound; if enough money is made one can live out of reach of the poverty that pervades the Nigerian landscape. “Money stops nonsense” “Double your hustle” “If it's not making money it's not making sense.” Nigerians might be familiar with any of these mantras summoning the importance of a sizable bank account. The Nigerian dream is one of salvation through financial freedom. Taken to its extreme, even in religious circles, money with profit becomes deified.</p><p>Returning to Lagos; the capitalist stronghold of Lagos city is a place of pilgrimage for the service of money. Societal values penetrate every aspect of life, and in the financial jewel of Nigeria, the worship of profit does not spare the architecture. In societies with more complex and richer value systems formed on the back of strong national identities, one might have architects designing to profess an admiration for community or perhaps articulate the meek inner city life. Honest, transparent states might design houses that call men of the town to unearth their deeds. Even tribal societies of old have erected their homes with clear priorities backed by their unified value system and identities. A courtyard surrounded by communal homes of one large extended family might show you just how important family is, and apartments in Italy with balconies featuring flowery balustrades looking into the squares or streets paint clearer pictures of where you are.</p><p>The sameness of modern cities is a wider discussion that goes beyond poverty or substandard statehood; the residential architecture of cities to the east and west that we might describe as unique and beautiful, however, face modernist principles armed with strong institutions and clarity on who they are.</p><p><br></p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000006909.jpg" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>Lagos has no such good fortune; with an irregular administration of the built environment, featuring laws that can be circumvented by bribery or negligence, the individuals, developers, and designers are treated to a free-for-all. The city is a rowdy discussion of design styles from colonial architecture to the current take on modern architecture; it is a tussle for the display of affluence or cutting of corners to maximise profit. To my left I might look and see a house that has seen no professional attention—it is perhaps unfit for living, the materials failing; the bespoke aesthetics a designer might bring to light, ignored. </p><p>On the other hand, a developer might employ designers of his own; controlling the money and wanting more of it, his brief demands the oblong white and bland cuboids one might find in every gated Lekki estate. When the architects take charge they also, for the most part, bend to no particular ideal beyond profit. When they do not, they impose ideals that are removed from the local context. Between the cracks where these major forces propelling residential design have failed to reach, the common man erects informal settlements removed from this privileged discussion.</p><p><br></p><p><img src="/media/inline_insight_image/1000007268.jpg" alt=""><br></p><p><br></p><p>When I point accusing fingers at the residential architecture that fails to inspire me in Lagos, Nigeria, I channel much blame to the ailing state bureaucracy; the impoverished society it has engendered is lacking not just money but strong unifying values of statehood beyond survival. In the future, I will point to more concrete examples of the architectural failings I described in this piece, and hopefully shed more light on what i believe is a crisis born of another crisis. If Lagos is to create more unique homes that prioritise tenets like well-being or beauty, it might be the case that the government must become more capable; designers and stakeholders might also have to impose a more robust set of principles that reverse engineer a strong sense of identity.</p><p>In part 2 of this essay I further illustrate how the unifying central authority of ancient dynastic China forged a clear identity for its people and its architecture (residential or otherwise) in major cities and then outskirts. I contrast this with how the several disjointed influences on Nigerian and Lagosian architecture have introduced the current landscape with disparate competing styles belied by ideals such as profit, bare bones survival or showing up your neighbours. </p>
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Hi Daniel, I think for this you just need to put yourself out there. Write more, put your writing online, on Medium, LinkedIn, even Twitter. Work towards becoming a contributor on platforms that are aligned with your style of writing. Build the right connections by going to writers workshops, interacting with the right people online, etc. Also, it sounds random, but make it clear you are a writer, use your bios wisely. At the end of the day, you want people to search your name and see your writing skills.
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Hello Precious, You should explore Medium. It's a platform for writers. You can eventually start your own blog, but try and build consistency on medium and also get some inspiration and maybe start building a community. Don't ignore LinkedIn and Twitter.
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I would rather see it from a point of collaboration as against company versus workers.A company is as good as its people, HR helps the company to shape policies and procedures while also coming up with initiatives to drive employee engagement in line with the vision of the company.When employees are engaged, productivity is higher.
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Off shore wind energy in your context should refer to the use of winds blown from the land towards the water bodies. It is important to evaluate the amount of offshore wind energy we have available. Every project is feasible depending on the necessity, emergency and cost of the projects. Offshore winds utilisation is not a profitable one for Africa. Of course, offshore wind energy is set to grow. At the moment only about 1.7 Tera Watts are mobilised on an average using windmills. Wherever need be, the resources could be better utilized. It is not Africa's priority and shouldn't be. What Africans could do is research and optimistic analysis of such a project, bringing it to lower scales could be better. For example, having a team of mechanical and electrical engineering students designing local windmills in localities to assist with increasing access to electricity (this is the end of point of wind energy utilisation).
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Thank you Temitayo. It is easier to transit within same Organization. You can show interest in HR during development conversations and also get involved in HR projects (if any) while still in your current department. You must continue to deliver on your job while planning to move to HR.If you are fresh out of school, you can write professional examinations in HR to prepare you for opportunities. You only have control over your readiness while you hope for the right opportunities by actively searching
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If Africa had not been colonised, I wonder where we would be today!!! Yet, given the globalised nature of the planet, I do not even see how that issue arises: today one can talk of neutral states, but in those days, a territory either colonised or was colonised on encounter. Technological advancement defines what is 'better off', i.e. where people want to go... and colonisation set us off towards that better-off. But that 'better-off' is a dynamic situation, and tenure among the 'best-off' - whatever the globally accepted measure, this is a game of musical chairs with tenure changing with changes in various situations. This dynamism also applies among the developing countries which belong to the lower echelons of the better-off ladder, aspiring to haul themselves up it. So colonialism was a necessary evil... While some of our founding fathers (sic) appreciated in the evil in - averse effects of - colonialism, they were up against those leaders who did not see that evil, and the mighty, white-washing force of neo-colonialism. Africa missed an opportunity to unite in the late 1950s and early 1960s. The colonialists and ex-colonialists divided and ruled: they convinced most individual African 'nationalists' that their best interests lay in going it alone. Contemporary pleas for African unity are mere nostalgic romanticism: corporate forces are more powerful that those of political idealism. That is the greatest adversity inherited from colonialism.
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<p>I made my first million when I was 12 years old. Relax, it wasn't exactly 1 million naira; it was 3,000 naira. Looking back, it did feel like a million naira. Don't judge me, and please read till the end to get the real gist. You see, when I was 12, SEGA and PS 2 were in Vogue, and it just happened that my neighbour's kids had hem. I remember going to their houses to indulge in what appeared to be revolutionary and, in many regards, a status symbol. </p><p>I remember repeatedly telling my mom to buy us a game too, but she didn't. I'm not sure we ever asked our dad to buy it! Don't ask me why! We never got the game, but we learned a valuable lesson, and I believe you will too. At that time, my mom had a savings business where she kept money for people and took a percentage for helping them save. My mom is part of the OG's of this traditional Fintech industry. Piggyvest should pay for her master class! She told us that she would buy an 18- or 16-bit game, but it would be from the money that we would save. <br></p><p>She did the breakdown for us on how long it would take to reach our desired figure. I was sincerely hooked. I was saving from the pocket money my parents gave me daily for probably 3 months to arrive at my target. I believe it was 50 naira per day. I remember joining my classmates to trek home multiple times just to enable me to save more. Ladies and gentlemen, it gladens my heart to say that going with my mom to that game shop felt heavenly. I held that carton as though it were an egg, and I smiled deeply. I'm other words, Joy been wan kill me!</p><p>The funny thing is that even after purchasing the game, we still had to play it on schedule. This was because my parents didn't want us to get hooked and lag academically.</p><p>Savings may not make you wealthy, but it can help you build the character of wealthy people. The values that stem from being consistent cannot be overemphasized. Saving at a young age taught me consistency. It was hard, and there'll be days when it doesn't look or feel like it's worth it, but you do it anyway. Mastery of any craft is showing up no matter what. Beyond showing up, it's embracing resilience and fighting mediocrity. Saving will make you prioritize. The truth is that adulthood is simply a series of debit alerts. So, you will have to learn how to spend wisely. You must deprive yourself responsibly! I'm not saying you should stay hungry or refuse yourself the basics or things that are seemingly important. I'm just informing you that "SACRIFICES MUST BE MADE."</p><p>Like many things in life, appetite is learned. If your goals mean a lot to you, you have to pay the price. Today, there are many platforms, such as Piggyvest and Cowrywise, designed to help you save and invest your money. Even our traditional banks now have their own distinct apps for savings and investment. Nigerian artist Priest has a catchphrase in his song Osimen, which is "Only Jesus saves; as for me i be big spender!" It's a cool line, but abeg save ooo. It's a beautiful thing for one to build a savings culture. Look beyond the numbers and embody the values.</p><p>Thanks to my mom (Mammalistic) for teaching us to save at a young age. Yup, that's how I made my first million.</p><p>What are your thoughts on saving?</p><p>Tell us how you made your first million?</p>
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The Moses Phenomenon
<p>Reflecting on this remarkable nation can provoke various emotions from anyone, such as love, frustration, anger, and the need to take action. I've come to realize something significant.</p><p><br></p><p>The responsibility of leadership or the path of a savior is never an easy one. I use the term "responsibility" because that's exactly what it is. While others lead carefree lives, you constantly remain aware of not just yourself, but also of your surroundings. You are conscious of how you and those around you are impacted by harsh conditions. Moreover, you hold yourself to a higher standard because, unlike others, you can't help but feel the need to address these issues. This can be as simple as acknowledging that something is wrong.</p><p><br></p><p>Throughout history, there have been numerous great men and women who have been called saviors, standing up and standing out when their people needed them. They brought their people together, instilling belief and trust. We often hear the inspiring stories that propelled these individuals into the spotlight, like Moses, but there is a darker side to their journeys. Moses, for instance, never made it to the promised land.</p><p><br></p><p>Many Nigerians have mentioned that "Nigeria(ns) are not worth fighting for." However, I'm sure you can think of a list of individuals who have not only risked their own lives and health, but also those of their friends and family. They did so not for personal gain, but because they could not bear the suffering any longer. They wanted those around them to believe that life held more than mere survival. Sadly, the reward they receive is often unjust. The very people they fought for may turn against them and tarnish their efforts, or when these helpers face adversity or are attacked, instead of receiving support from the people they fought for, they are met with silence.</p><p><br></p><p>In some instances, after these individuals are no longer around, their people return to the old ways they had fought to change. Alternatively, if they are forcibly removed, they might become topics of discussion online for a mere 2-3 days. Their entire effort is reduced to a hashtag that fails to honor their legacy or their cause, with messages such as "may Nigeria not happen to you and your family," before swiftly moving on to the latest in a string of distracting and senseless topics.</p><p><br></p><p>If you ever wonder why, I can relate, and though I do not claim to have a definitive answer, I do believe that we do not value life, nor do we value ourselves. I do not mean this in monetary terms, as we already place excessive emphasis on that aspect, to the point of overvaluation (if we are being honest). Rather, I refer to dignity and pride, recognizing that no individual should have to beg for food or be brought low for others to feel important or needed. Every person is precious, and if they act foolishly or make mistakes, they should be corrected, yet still embraced and shown love when they repent or learn from their errors.</p><p><br></p><p>The reality of fighting for people's development has caused genuine concerned individuals to step back, while opportunists and "cashtivists," individuals who pretend to fight for the people but are actually motivated by personal gain, have rushed in. These opportunists are swift to switch sides when presented with the opportunity to join the very people they claim to be fighting against. They always have a price and are willing to sacrifice others to attain it.</p><p><br></p><p>So, have you lost your fire to not only do what is right but to speak up, or have you been numbed by society?</p>
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Jack Of All Trades and Master Of Some
<p>We’ve all heard the English idiom<strong> “Jack of All Trades and Master of None”</strong> derogatorily used to imply a person has a plethora of interests, but are yet to achieve a high level of expertise or success in one area.</p><p>It’s a way of saying <em>stay in one place </em>and focus on one skill, rather than expending effort trying to perfect many skills, that will supposedly leave you no time to master any one specific skill in the end. </p><p>I call BS.</p><p><em>And considering the phrase is attributed to one bad bele 16th century English writer who was beefing Shakespeare…chuckle… I’m not surprised it came from a hater. </em>From what I garnered online, the writer whose name was Robert Greene, may not have been the first person to coin the phrase which evolved over time, but history credits him for it as it was mentioned in his 1592 booklet titled “Greenes Groats-Worth Of Wit” where he described Shakespeare as an “uptight crow” and drum roll please…. “A Jack of All Trades.”</p><p><em>Baba was just jealous of Shakespeare, I mean it’s clear as day.</em> And that is exactly how you people who love to use that term sound like, if you ask me. Because what is it to anyone, the number of interests you have? Is it their interest?</p><p>As somebody who has indulged in several occupations myself, and attempted to learn a bunch of things, <em>and failed woefully at almost all, admittedly, </em>i believe life is too short to limit yourself to just one path, particularly when you’re just starting out in life. I think that contrary to popular belief, you can be a Jack of all trades and still master the ones you love. <em>And like in my case, even if you don’t master any, it doesn’t affect the cost of fuel in any of our Nigerian filling stations.</em></p><p><em><br></em></p><p>Society often pushes the narrative that specialization is the only path to success, but this overlooks the joy and fulfillment that come from pursuing multiple passions.</p><p>And as I’ve come to find out, not everybody knows from their mother’s womb, lawyering is their calling, or singing and dancing are what they are destined for. Some people first have to try their hands at a couple of things to discover their true passion. So, ignore the naysayers like the writer who was clearly throwing shade at the great William Shakespeare, and explore as many fields as you like. Be diverse, be adventurous, be curious.</p><p> And even if you never master one trade in its entirety, at-least you can do bits of different things here and there, unlike folks who can only do one.</p><p><br></p><p>And that is just the coolest thing, no?</p>
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